'Классификация сексуальных расстройств'

Любая семья всегда подчиняется в своем существовании двум противоположно направленным тенденциям. Одна заключается в том, что члены семьи постоянно меняются (уходят старые, приходят новые). Вторая в том, что семья старается остаться неизменной. Когда обе тенденции начинают противоречить друг другу, в семье происходят кризисы. Первый кризис происходит тогда, когда молодые начинают жить вместе. У каждого из них формируется представление о том, как должна выглядеть семья. Такие представления в значительной степени могут не совпадать, по этому на раннем этапе формирования семьи нужно выработать общие правила поведения.  Следующие кризисы возникают после появления детей, потому что в данный период нужно пересмотреть обязанности и ответственность членов семьи. В это время человек начинает осознавать о сроке, отведенном на жизнь, и о том, что нужно делать первое подведение итогов. В таком возрасте у многих мужчин появляются молодые любовницы. Появление кризисов в семье может быть связано с взрослением детей, и в последствии обзаведением собственных семей. Когда дети приводят в семью родителей своих супругов, то семья начинает пересматривать все устоявшиеся правила. Последний кризис наступает после смерти одного из супругов, и другой остается один.

В определенный период семейной жизни могут возникнуть определенные проблемы разной степени сложности у членов семьи могут появляться неврозы, психосоматические заболевания, (подробнее смотрите соответствующие разделы) в ряде случаев требующие вмешательства психолога или психотерапевта. Сексуальные взаимоотношения – неотъемлемая часть семейной жизни. Норма сексуальной жизни – понятие растяжимое, для каждого свое. Если интимная жизнь обоих членов семьи устраивает, то жизнь у них гармоничная.

Можно выделить 4 вида сексуальной дисгармонии – психосоматических сексуальных нарушений:

Импотенция, когда у мужчины половой член не достигает необходимых для совершения полового акта напряжения и твердости.

  • Преждевременная эякуляция: абсолютная, когда семяизвержение наступает меньше чем через 2 минуты от начала полового акта и относительная, когда оргазм у мужчины наступает раньше, чем у женщины.
  • Фригидность, то есть отсутствие полового влечения у женщины.Аноргазмия, то есть невозможность женщины получить оргазм при наличии полового влечения.

Часто имеет место сочетание вышеназванных вариантов, например преждевременная эякуляция и аноргазмия. Довольно таки часто сексуальная дисгармония может быть связана с проблемами в семье (измена одного из супругов, алкоголизм, неврозы, психосоматические заболевания и нарушения). Их причины кроются в голове, и связаны с отношениями ко всему что окружает. Не всегда в таких ситуациях помогает лекарство, при перечисленных выше проблемах лучше обратиться за помощью к психотерапевту.

This is the most basic form of stress relief practised by both professional and non-professional alike. Here, the patient is encouraged to talk about his problems and anxieties to an individual who will be sympathetic and supportive. One does not have to be a psychiatrist to qualify as an audience of course. A tolerant friend may suffice, and for centuries the clergy filled this role, and many of them still do. However, the impersonality of the professional, his skilled prompting and therapeutic intent, give him a great advantage. A disadvantage is his costliness, but that reinforces the impersonality and also makes the process more purposeful for the patient. It gives the patient, to put it bluntly, a financial motive for recovery.

Sensitive physicians practise this form of supportive psychotherapy intuitively. The patient is made to fed that he it worthwhile, and that the doctor wants more than anything in the world to help him. As a result of his warm, friendly, positive attitude, the physician enables the patient to feel secure, accepted, protected, less anxious, and encouraged towards health. The aim is not to remake the personality but to help an individual over a rough spot in his life. Advice may be given about rest, exercise, diet, use of drugs, hobbies etc. Sympathetic counselling about dealing with practical issues is given. With reassurance and support, the doctor reinforces the patient’s defences against anxiety, emphasizes his capacity to get well, encourages self-esteem, and permits the patient to have a corrective emotional experience with someone who treats him differently from all other persons in his life.

This type of therapy is, of course, quite different from the analytic type practised by psychiatrists. The latter is aimed at uncovering unconscious material and allowing it to be aired, in the hope that a permanent change in personality can be effected. Analysis, which is in the realm of psychiatric treatment may, in severe cases, be required. It is interesting, however, to note that rashes of the type seen in neurodermatitis are a result of unresolved conflict. Whereas people with psychiatric diseases have virtually given up the struggle to resolve their conflicts, and therefore the incidence of stress-related skin diseases amongst such individuals is very small.

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These pure oils cold pressed from nuts, seeds or fruits are highly nutritious and have many therapeutic properties. Cold-pressed vegetable oils are sometimes referred to as «carrier’ oils, as they are commonly used to carry essential oils in massage oils, and skin and hair care preparations. They have good skin penetration leavmg the skin nourished and feeling soft and supple. Base carrier oils are always cold pressed and stored in amber glass containers.

The life span of base oils becomes limited once essential oils have been added – approximately three months. To prevent oxidisation add 10% wheatgerm oil to base oil blends or vitamin-E.

The Most Common Cold Pressed Oils

Apricot Kernel Oil: (Prunus armeniacaa) oil is cold pressed from the kernel and is very pale yellow. Contains minerals and vitamins A, Bl, B2, B5, B12,andC.

It has a light texture making it easily absorbed by the skin. It is suitable for mature, dry, sensitive or inflamed skin. It is used in treatment for rough, or sun-damaged skin and for healing scar tissue. Avocado: (Persea americana) oil is extracted from the fruit and seeds and is rich in chlorophyll, the reason for the dark green colour. Contains vitamins A, B, C, D, B6, as well as protein, lecithin, potassium and essential fatty acids. The oil can be used to soothe the skin, being useful for eczema and nappy rash. Its moisturising properties are ideal for dry mature and ageing skin, it can assist in the treatment of climate damaged skin.

Castor Oil: (Ricinus communis), is a tropical plant and is derived from the bean like seeds of the castor oil plant. The healing properties have been known for several thousands of years, in the middle ages the herbalists in Europe used the oil as a kind of liniment and lubricant. Uses: Castor oil is used to relieve joint stiffness, pain from arthritis, for lesions such as a wound or injury, sore, rash or boil. For topical application , apply castor oil on by massaging into the area or by applying a castor oil pack.

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(Recommended for Adults)

Bath: Fill bath with water add 4-8 drops. Agitate water well to disperse the essential oil. Soak for 10-20 minutes.

Body Compress: Add 10 drops to 200 ml of water. Place cloth into water. Wring out, then apply to affected area for 10 minutes.

Body Massage: Dilute 10 drops of essential oil to 20 ml of cold pressed oils such as Sweet Almond Grapeseed or Sesame Seed.

Facial Compress: Add 2-4 drops to a bowl of warm water. Soak a face cloth in the water and apply to the face. Repeat 4-5 times.

Facial Massage: Dilute 5 drops of essential oil to 20 mis of cold pressed oils such as Apricot, Peach or Jojoba. Inhalations: 2-5 drops into bowl of hot water. Place face over steam, towel over head and «inhale». Close your eyes.

Cautions: In very rare cases it has happened that people may faint, To prevent accidents it is recommended to cover the bowl with a grid. Do not use steam inhalation during an asthma attack.

Mist Spray: Add 10 drops to 100 ml purified water. Shake well. Close your eyes, spray mist above the head and inhale.

Hand Bath: Add 2-4 drops to a large bowl and soak for 10-15 minutes. After the bath, massage the reflex point with the hand massage oil adding to each 5 ml hand massage oii 3 drops of essential oils. Sauna: Add 4 drops per litre water, then throw on the heat source Shower: 2-3 drops in wet face cloth, rub all over body.

Sitzbath: you require a large bowl to sit in. Add warm water and 4 drops of essential oils. Soak for 10 to 15 minutes Spa: Add 3 drops per person to the spa bath

Roomspray: Place in a 100 ml pump spray bottle 90 ml of water, 10 ml vinegar and 1 ml essential oils. Shake well before each use. Vaporiser/Oil Burner: Add 5-10 drops essential oil (depending on room size) into water on top of the burner. Foot Bath: Add 4-6 drops to a large bowl and soak for 10-15 minutes. After the bath, massage the reflex point with the foot massage oil adding to each 10 ml foot massage oil 5 drops of essential oils.

When using essential oils on children use half to quarter of the amount to adults, and dissolve the essential oils in a carrier oil or in milk before adding to bath water.

Do not use essential oils on babies or during pregnancy without advice from a qualified Aromatherapist

Remember : To achieve maximum benefits from essential oils use less rather than more.

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Chamomile (Matricaria chamomilla) is especially useful in treating dry flaky skin, wrinkles, inflammation, rashes, stretch marks, muscle stiffness and limb paralysis. Also used in hair care for a conditioner, especially for blond hair.

Chickweed (stelllaria media) is great to bring comfort to chronic itching and rashes. Make up a salve by mixing together 1-1/2 cups of chopped fresh chickweed, 2 cups of olive oil, 6 tbsp. beeswax. Warm ingredients up to 2 hours then strain.

Cleavers or Bedstraw (Galium aparine, G. verum) excellent face wash to tighten wrinkled saggy skin. Add 31/2 tbsp. of dried herbs to 1 quart of boiling water, cover and steep for 40 minutes. Wash the face and neck with solution, also apply face compresses leaving them on for 10 minutes several times a day.

Comfrey (Symphytum Officinale) leaves are used in a fomentation for abscesses, bruises, boils, cuts, insect bites, sprains, swellings, ulcers and wounds.

Elder (sambucus nigra) when used in a facial steam tightens the pores, and makes an excellent face lotion slightly astringent suitable for all skin types. When used in the bath it is stimulating and healing. It can also be used in an ointment to repair any chapping and keep the skin supple. Hops (humulus Lupulus) is well known for its calming, relaxing and rejuvenating effect. For a good night’s sleep it is recommended to soak in a warm (not hot) bath for 15 – 20 minutes. The estrogen’s contained in hops are used cosmetically to slow down the skin aging process. Hops extracts are used in creams and lotions for sensitive, and for sagging and impure skin. Beer can be used as a hair rinse to make hair glossy and to treat dandruff.

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There are two methods of making herbal vinegar’s.

Using commercial vinegar: herbal vinegar’s are commonly made by

buying a bottle of vinegar (important to avoid white and malt vinegar’s)

and adding herbs like marjoram, rosemary, sage and thyme to it. The

bottle is sealed again and left for at least four weeks for the herb to

disperse.

Fermenting the herb itself to vinegar: you can easily make your own herbal vinegar. Make a herb tea with the herb of your choice and ferment with sugar and a Kombucha culture as you would prepare your Kombucha brew. Instead of drinking the herbal Kombucha brew after 7 to 15 days, simply forget it for a minimum of 6 weeks. You can now use your own herbal vinegar. It’s the best vinegar you can get and it’s next to free. For more information about Kombucha brewing it is recommended to read the book «Kombucha Teaology».

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The healing power of clay used externally increases the circulation and flow of oxygen to the skin and all over the body. Green clay is used to repair damaged skin without scarring. It has a strong exfoliating, purifying and toning effect at a cellular level. It is suitable for all skin types, but more specifically for oily and blemished skin. Red clay is high in iron oxide, and is most suitable for post-acne, mature, dehydrated, tired and stressed skin. It may be used for refining the texture of the skin, calming inflammation. White clay is rich in magnesium, stops perspiration and can be used as a lotion for eczema and for sensitive skins. Can be used as a replacement for talcum powder and is ideal for skin rashes. Also excellent as a treatment pack for dry and brittle hair, Pink clay refines the texture, improves softness of the skin, and has a tonic and firming effect on the epidermis. It is mainly used for dehydrated and sensitive skin. It is ideal as a body wrap, for it helps to firm the bust, thighs, stomach and upper arms. Yellow clay absorbs impurities and toxins from the skin high in iron content. It is suitable for most skin types, especially for sun damaged, combination and fatigued skins.

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